Trashy DOES NOT Equal Sexy

Ok ladies, I’m going to pick on you specifically but the same goes for all you
guys out there as well, but since I’m a woman my first blog post is for the
ladies.

There must be some disease that hits most SL females that transforms them from Ruth to Brittney Spears within a few days of their birth. They go from the hideous default avatar to trailer park/escort/BDSM queen. The grid is awash with 7 foot tall amazons wearing wild hair, belly shirts, skin tight jeans or micro-mini skirts with platform heels all topped off with tattoos and enough cheap bling jewelry to make Mr. T look subdued and conservative. Somehow they’ve decided that looking like a walking ad for the red light district makes them attractive. Well if you’re working the streets in Amsterdam sim maybe it does, but for the rest of us there’s a better way. Let me show you some outfits that look sexy, feminine and polished: outfits that will get you noticed without getting you arrested for solicitation.

Evening
Let’s start with a little evening number by Crucial Creations. The Nico Ckorri is Crucial’s edgy (and slightly kinky) take on the little black dress. Check out the lacing up the sides, the very sexy open back and the black thigh high stockings. An awesome pair of black velvet knee high lace up boots with flexi ribbons, also from Crucial, completes the outfit. This is the perfect evening dress for dancing at that hot new club or a quiet night out with that special someone. It’s got very nice detailing and really flatters your shape (if you have long legs you’ll look absolutely amazing) without being skin tight. The Nico Ckorri dress is definitely hot, but there’s nothing sleazy or cheap looking about it. To add that last bit of detail I’ve accessorised with Encore’s Timeless black pearl knotted necklace and earrings. This outfit speaks for itself and needs very little in the way of extras. Just add your favorite necklace and earrings, maybe a fun little evening bag and you’re good to go.

Everyday
Next here’s an everyday outfit that’s casual and fun not trashy. I paired up Nyte’N'Day’s Plush Red tank top with a pair of light Trouble jeans from Pixel Dolls. The red satin of the tank looks rich and shimmery and goes well with any skin tone. It’s not too tight, but just clingy enough to show off your curves. Also, it’s long enough that it comes to the top of even low rise jeans so if you don’t want to show your stomach to the world no worries. The Trouble jeans are a favorite of mine. They have a comfy lived in look without seeming like they were dragged behind a car for 5 miles. Finally, the sandals are D2TK’s color changing Brown Classics. They can be changed via a simple drop down menu to any of 6 different shades to compliment any outfit. Heels are nice but a quality pair of sandals add some variety. (Here’s a tip ladies: if you’re wearing open toe shoes without stockings, please get yourself a nice pedicure like the one I’m wearing from Awesome Designs. They’re not expensive and can be bought as a set with many manicures. SL avatar feet are universally ugly no matter how nice the skin. Do yourself a favor and don’t neglect your feet–nothing kills a great pair of open toe shoes faster than funky feet)

All Business
You ladies who work in an office can get in on the fun too. Looking professional doesn’t mean looking drab and here’s the proof: Last Call’s Ingrid high waisted charcoal pants and white top. The top’s deep neckline shows off your, um…assets…but in a more polished way and the included red agate rock necklace adds interest (it also draws the menfolk’s eyes back up to your face where they belong). I really love the details of this top like the subtle shading and check out the pretty bow just above the waistband. The pants are beautifully textured and nicely detailed. I especially like the cool 4 button front, zippered back and prim flares. Notice how well the high waist works to accentuate the hips and rear. Unlike a lot of ladies pants in SL these look better the curvier you are. Unless your butt is totally out of proportion these pants will definitely get you some positive attention, yet are totally appropriate for a business or professional setting. The finishing touch are the shoes. Also by Crucial, the silver Sling Pumps have pointed toes that look great with the flared legs of the pants. They also help make shorter legs look longer and sleeker.

Ok, I think I’ve beat on you girls enough for now. I hope you see how it’s easily possible to look hot without resorting to cheap-looking over the top clothing. I think these three examples will give you some ideas. Feel free to let me know your thoughts by leaving a comment.